Love and Sexuality in 2012 Happy Valentine's Day! Today we celebrate Love... What a great day to remember our relationship to everything, to every part of Life.
Love and Sexuality in 2012
Happy Valentine's Day! Today we celebrate Love...
What a great day to remember our relationship to
everything, to every part of Life.
Love, sex, money and God are the cornerstones of
living. All involve an energy exchange between you and
another.
Your relationship with everyone and everything
determines who you are. If you can't relate to people
and things, you can't create or understand your role in
that relationship.
Maybe you're wondering - how are love, sex, money and
God related?
All involve being the Creator of your life.
Let's look at money for a moment. Most people earn
money by doing something they don't love. Work feels
hard and takes a lot out of them. At the same time, we
have been made to feel guilty about life's pleasures.
About the very things we want most.
No wonder we're fighting wars and lie in judgment of
others. We're afraid to let go and let Happiness in.
Love and abundance are FEELINGS. Their presence or
absence in your life depends on what you choose for
yourself.
What do you want most?
Love.
Here is a secret:
Love everything you want in life. And it will be drawn
to you.
CHOOSE to feel pleasure, joy and abundance - and you
will experience them!
We have been raised NOT to feel personally gratified.
We have been raised to feel guilty if life feels
awesome and good!
That is a definition of insanity...
So, one of our biggest challenges is allowing love and
sexuality into our lives.
Did you know that embracing your own sexuality
activates your creativity? And no, you don't have to be
in an intimate relationship to feel sexual.
The joy of loving another person begins by loving
yourself first.
Feeling happy, feeling pleasure allows you to share
happiness and pleasure with others.
Don't deny yourself the things that bring you
pleasure.
Creativity and sexual expression are interrelated.
Both create an extraordinary rhythmic energy flow.
This brings up an interesting point about our
teachings on Creation.
When you think of the Creation Story of most any human
culture, you know there is a male Deity who is separate
from us humans and angry at us for not doing as He
asks.
Hmm, is it a wonder then that we try to solve so many
conflicts with anger, impatience and violence?
Humans have a hard time loving themselves (let alone
each other) because they have been told they are
separate from God. They think they have to learn their
lessons and earn their way into heaven.
What if we changed that paradigm!
Have you noticed that a person who is happy, at peace
and spiritually nourished feels much too worthy to
attack another? Because he/she knows we are all ONE. We
are not separate. That is an illusion. The truth is we
all come from one source. As the Michael Jackson song
says, "We are the World".
The Creation story introduced the concept of aloneness
and isolation. Feeling alone makes us want to defend
and protect ourselves from perceived outside negative
forces.
And this is the approach we bring to our
relationships.
However, in 2012, we can shift this perception of
isolation and fear, separation and conflict.
2012 = 5 and 5 symbolizes fearlessness, change, joy
and freedom.
No matter what someone else thinks, does, feels,
wants, is or says, no matter what energy someone else
is sending out - all you focus on is what YOU are being
in relation to the other person. Let each person worry
about himself - what she herself is doing.
That is the true meaning of freedom. Allowing another
to do as they wish.
Your life revolves around what YOU are, do, feel,
want, think and say.
If you focus on your own spiritual, emotional, mental
and physical nourishment, on your own happiness, you
will never loose yourself in a relationship. You will
never join another because you are lonely.
Those who focus on getting nourishment from outside of
themselves because they feel separate and incomplete,
enter a relationship in order to complete themselves -
and this is where the problems really begin. Because
then you have to give up who and what you are in order
to be a couple.
If your first relationship is to your self, honoring
your self, feeling blessed, feeling happy - then you
will see others as blessed too.
What you do for YOU, you do for OTHERS.
You and the other are ONE.
At no other time during our lives is this more
important than in 2012.
Find out exactly how to achieve balance and well-being
during this extraordinary year of change and unexpected
events by consulting me.
If there is something you've been wanting to do
all your life, get out there and do it!
Together, we will rock the
world in 2012 - and beyond.:
In : Year 2012
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